The Problem : you want intimacy but because he is not a great talker ? And u end up pumping him for information ? ↲You know that a good communication is the foundation of a happy and lasting relationship so you are apart and the more you will push him to be intimate and that makes him feel you are being overbearing . This make u to create a very real risk that he will start to withdraw from you because he feels stifled . ↲↲Solution : when he arrives at your place or ask you out for a drink , dont ask him bout his day . Let him direct the converstation where he would like it to go if he is not great at doing that , then bring up something general like what film you want to watch but keep that discussion short and to the point . If he doesnt step in and share his , grab a book or mag from your bag or check your ph messages .↲Your aim ? ? To come off looking a little aloof , confident and not at all needy . If there is an awkward silence then put on a friendly or sexy smile but dont try to fill it up with a talk . 0nce you pull right back he will no longer feel pressured to spill all . Automatically he will want to spill way more to you because he will feel you being a little distant and he will be the one wanting to get abit more up close and personal .
Friday, June 25, 2010
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
0 comments:
Post a Comment